Richard Procida, an attorney and academic author, has published a new article in the Centre for Male Psychology magazine that sheds light on the connection between modern mating patterns and male loneliness. The piece, titled "'Some guys have all the luck'. Bachelorette Parties, Lonely Boys, and De Facto Polygyny," argues that the concentration of female romantic attention on a smaller number of high-value men results in a form of de facto polygyny, leaving many average men excluded from relationships and experiencing significant psychological consequences.
Procida's analysis, available at the Centre for Male Psychology website, delves into how this dynamic contributes to elevated loneliness, diminished social networks, and increased risks to men's mental health. The article is timely, given the growing discourse on the male loneliness epidemic and its societal implications.
In addition to his work on mating markets, Procida has also addressed the deepening political and cultural divides in American society. His article "The Polarization Trap," published at LA Progressive, examines how polarized thinking—particularly around gender and social issues—traps individuals on opposing sides, hindering constructive dialogue and mutual understanding.
Procida, who is the author of Social Issues in Global Perspective: Pornography (Lexington Books), writes extensively on men's issues, relationships, social dynamics, and political polarization. His latest publications come at a time when policymakers and mental health professionals are increasingly concerned about the well-being of men and the societal fractures that exacerbate these issues.
The implications of Procida's work are far-reaching. By highlighting the structural factors that contribute to male loneliness, he challenges the narrative that individual men are solely responsible for their relationship status. Instead, he points to broader mating market dynamics that create winners and losers, with profound effects on mental health and social cohesion.
Moreover, his exploration of political polarization underscores the challenges of addressing these issues in a divided society. As the nation grapples with gender-related debates and cultural conflicts, Procida's insights offer a framework for understanding the underlying dynamics and the need for more nuanced conversations.
Procida is available for media interviews, podcast appearances, and public speaking engagements to discuss these topics, including male loneliness, singlehood, mental health, modern mating markets, and the psychological impact of prolonged exclusion from intimate relationships. He also speaks on political and cultural polarization, as well as related social and demographic issues.


